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Saturday, January 14, 2012
Friday, January 13, 2012
Best Wedding Ever
I was privileged to cap off Big Meeting week in Honolulu with the wedding of Stefphanie, colleague and friend. She and Vince have been together for six years and decided to get married in Hawaii with a tiny group of us and then have big ol' parties with their families upon their return.
It was to be an in-the-park at sunset affair. The car picked us up at 4:30. One of these:
We arrived to find the minister, who was a bit nervous because the photographer had not arrived. Messed up calendar or something, which really sucked because pictures at a sunset wedding require..sunset. The minister put out a couple of SOS calls and Stef charitably said that if they couldn't get a photographer right away, they would get married and meet a photographer for pictures the next night.
While this drama was going on, there was some commotion on the other side of the park. Turns out they were filming an episode of Hawaii 5-0. Half of our group went all fan-girl and ran over to watch.
I was not one of them.
But Stef's cousin, Holly, spotted Scott Caan, walked right up to him and told him the story. Wedding. Missing photographer. Would you mind if..? So the bride and groom were photographed with the actor, and that went right up on Facebook.
Around that time, people starting poking their heads around our limo to see if anyone famous was inside. Heh.
A real photographer arrived and there was a wedding. It took about ten minutes, which is always great. Holly held her phone out on speaker so that Stefphanie's mom could listen in. Not sure whether that was planned or a "While you are on the line" after we called to tell her about Scott Caan. But it was sweet.
I am not going to give you pictures of people, but here were a couple of the scene.
Then we went back to the hotel for a drink whereupon I left for the airport.
Seriously, it was the best wedding ever.
It was to be an in-the-park at sunset affair. The car picked us up at 4:30. One of these:
We arrived to find the minister, who was a bit nervous because the photographer had not arrived. Messed up calendar or something, which really sucked because pictures at a sunset wedding require..sunset. The minister put out a couple of SOS calls and Stef charitably said that if they couldn't get a photographer right away, they would get married and meet a photographer for pictures the next night.
While this drama was going on, there was some commotion on the other side of the park. Turns out they were filming an episode of Hawaii 5-0. Half of our group went all fan-girl and ran over to watch.
I was not one of them.
But Stef's cousin, Holly, spotted Scott Caan, walked right up to him and told him the story. Wedding. Missing photographer. Would you mind if..? So the bride and groom were photographed with the actor, and that went right up on Facebook.
Around that time, people starting poking their heads around our limo to see if anyone famous was inside. Heh.
A real photographer arrived and there was a wedding. It took about ten minutes, which is always great. Holly held her phone out on speaker so that Stefphanie's mom could listen in. Not sure whether that was planned or a "While you are on the line" after we called to tell her about Scott Caan. But it was sweet.I am not going to give you pictures of people, but here were a couple of the scene.
Seriously, it was the best wedding ever.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Pictures Like this Are Why I Love the Chicago Tribune
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| That stupid Marilyn Monroe statue downtown during the first snowfall of the season. |
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Island Time
Big Company Meeting in Hawaii this week. Yeah, yeah. I'd explain why it is all a big pain, but you wouldn't believe me.
Things on the island are more laid back. Meaning that if a meeting is supposed to start at 2pm, it will really be at 2:15. Makes me crazy, actually. But here's where it got funny:
Last night, my sixth in town, was the end of the big functions. When I got back to my room, there was a gift box on my bed. I opened the card, thinking it was a Thank You. "Time to Relax" would have been premature.
The card read (in short), "We welcome you here to the islands of Aloha...You have our commitment that...Please feel free to let us know how we can make your stay more memorable." Followed by the contact information of five people.
It was a lovely box of Hawaiian shortbread cookies.
Things on the island are more laid back. Meaning that if a meeting is supposed to start at 2pm, it will really be at 2:15. Makes me crazy, actually. But here's where it got funny:
Last night, my sixth in town, was the end of the big functions. When I got back to my room, there was a gift box on my bed. I opened the card, thinking it was a Thank You. "Time to Relax" would have been premature.
The card read (in short), "We welcome you here to the islands of Aloha...You have our commitment that...Please feel free to let us know how we can make your stay more memorable." Followed by the contact information of five people.
It was a lovely box of Hawaiian shortbread cookies.
Thursday, January 5, 2012
A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, by Betty Smith
Book 1, 2012This is another that falls into the category of, "Books that everyone read in school. Except me." I've been stalling on reading it for awhile, because everyone said it was so sad. Started with the audio book and finished on the airplane - boy are Brooklyn accents harsh.
Eh. I've read worse. (SPOILERS)
The novel follows a family living in poverty in Brooklyn, mostly during the years preceding WWI. If you don't count the infant mortality rate of women that can't afford medical care (and I don't because it only indirectly affects our main characters), the saddest thing that happens is the daddy drinks himself to death. It is a tragedy, but we are also told this way in advance. Also, there is so much forshadowing of the event that an 11-year old could see it. Since an 11-year old would be the intended audience. I was braced for it.
There is also a terrible, terrible moment when a 15 year old girl has to decide whether to take a promotion that would make her more money than her fmaily has ever seen before..or go to high school in the fall. Seriously, I found that family discussion more tense than anything else in the story.
I was very interested to read the mother's consistent feelings about taking charity. She would rather starve. And have her children starve. I am not sure if this was a matter of "a different time" or the immigrant experience, but it was striking.
I also appreciated the running demonstrations of the ways teachers can make or break the aspirations of children.
I loved this book. Loved.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Project Linus - Year One
Let's start with my last two blankets of the year:
Blanket 69 starts with this blue fleece from Ikea. It is large, as seen on a queen sized bed. So it doesn't need to be cut at all, just run through with the rotary skip stitch blade to crochet. I forget who in our chapter found this, but at $2.49 it is a great deal. I bought several and swapped them for prepared fleece, then got one back the next time around. I forget what the yarn is, but I want to say it was one from Bernat.
Blanket 70 was just your average piece of pink fleece and a Red Heart variegated yarn. I think it was the Cotton Candy one again.
And that was the year. 70 Blankets is pretty good for Year One, I think.
So as I reflected a bit on the experience and what I want to do in 2012, I had several thoughts.
First, when I turned in my completed blankets at the last Starbucks night, Peggy pulled them out of the bag to put the special Project Linus tag on them and saw that I had a fully crocheted blanket in with several crocheted-edge fleece. I said, "Yeah. I'd forgotten how long it takes to do them." I can finish a fleece inside of one average professional sports game (I finished my first 2012 blanket during the Bears game yesterday). Fully-crocheted takes forever. So it is hard to put a number on how many blankets I plan to do next year.
Also, I am still only doing a single crochet. The ladies at Project Linus are certain that at some point, I will want to branch out and stuff takes longer when one is learning.
But what I can say is that I made time to attend more events than I originally thought I could do. I made nearly all of the bi-monthly Saturday events and was a regular at the monthly Wednesday evening gatherings at Starbucks. I have met a lot of wonderful people who welcomed me warmly even though I haven't a fraction of their artistic skills.
I've said that my chapter is large and active. I have already offered to help if they are interested in taking the networking to the next level online. But I'm not sure they even need it!
Overall, I am very happy with the experience and plan to continue as an active donor and volunteer in 2012.
Blanket 69 starts with this blue fleece from Ikea. It is large, as seen on a queen sized bed. So it doesn't need to be cut at all, just run through with the rotary skip stitch blade to crochet. I forget who in our chapter found this, but at $2.49 it is a great deal. I bought several and swapped them for prepared fleece, then got one back the next time around. I forget what the yarn is, but I want to say it was one from Bernat.
And that was the year. 70 Blankets is pretty good for Year One, I think.
So as I reflected a bit on the experience and what I want to do in 2012, I had several thoughts.
First, when I turned in my completed blankets at the last Starbucks night, Peggy pulled them out of the bag to put the special Project Linus tag on them and saw that I had a fully crocheted blanket in with several crocheted-edge fleece. I said, "Yeah. I'd forgotten how long it takes to do them." I can finish a fleece inside of one average professional sports game (I finished my first 2012 blanket during the Bears game yesterday). Fully-crocheted takes forever. So it is hard to put a number on how many blankets I plan to do next year.
Also, I am still only doing a single crochet. The ladies at Project Linus are certain that at some point, I will want to branch out and stuff takes longer when one is learning.
But what I can say is that I made time to attend more events than I originally thought I could do. I made nearly all of the bi-monthly Saturday events and was a regular at the monthly Wednesday evening gatherings at Starbucks. I have met a lot of wonderful people who welcomed me warmly even though I haven't a fraction of their artistic skills.
I've said that my chapter is large and active. I have already offered to help if they are interested in taking the networking to the next level online. But I'm not sure they even need it!
Overall, I am very happy with the experience and plan to continue as an active donor and volunteer in 2012.
Monday, January 2, 2012
Goal Check - 2011
So here is what I wrote last year and how it went:
At the Refuge, we have all agreed that we need to start organized fundraising efforts. I spent a few hours researching grants that might be available. Of course, I'll have to learn how to write them.
We held a fundraising walk on Memorial Day that raised a bunch of money. Another volunteer picked up the grant writing and ran with it, although I don't know what kind of results she had. Finally, my employer started a charitable matching contribution program that I maxed out in support of the Refuge. I am calling a Win on this goal, but we'd better step it up next year.
At the Library, we have talked a lot about how to keep all of the volunteers better informed. It is really hard to keep everyone on the same page when we are all working one-at-a-time. I owe our director an e-mail on the instructions regarding onsite sales of Amazon listed books.
Didn't make much progress here. Not all volunteers are online so we have relied on a notebook to keep volunteers informed onsite. But not all of us are onsite at regular intervals. We are having another planning committee meeting soon and I expect we will be discussing this again.
I mentioned that I am beginning to contribute blankets to Project Linus. I am not sure how active I can be in the local chapter, but I think I am halfway through my second contribution.
I rocked this one, and will discuss it further in a separate post.
I was disappointed that I only made it to 50 Books read in 2010. However, it seems to be a reachable goal, so I'd better stick with it. I will commit to reading every book that my Book Club selects, even if I am not able to attend the meetings.
I hit 65 books, thanks to the audio section of the Library. However, I did skip one Book Club Book. The meeting was on the day of a Bears game and it would have been a re-read anyway.
I am not going to commit to visiting any place new in 2011. The winter vacation is a repeat, and unless I have a much better idea, I think I want to go back to New Orleans this year.
I did not visit any new cities in 2011. However, I have a vacation to Kauai planned for late winter (been to Hawaii, but not this particular island) and a conference scheduled for Wrightsville Beach, NC (been to the state, not this area). I do not have hard plans for the summer yet.
We held a fundraising walk on Memorial Day that raised a bunch of money. Another volunteer picked up the grant writing and ran with it, although I don't know what kind of results she had. Finally, my employer started a charitable matching contribution program that I maxed out in support of the Refuge. I am calling a Win on this goal, but we'd better step it up next year.
At the Library, we have talked a lot about how to keep all of the volunteers better informed. It is really hard to keep everyone on the same page when we are all working one-at-a-time. I owe our director an e-mail on the instructions regarding onsite sales of Amazon listed books.
Didn't make much progress here. Not all volunteers are online so we have relied on a notebook to keep volunteers informed onsite. But not all of us are onsite at regular intervals. We are having another planning committee meeting soon and I expect we will be discussing this again.
I mentioned that I am beginning to contribute blankets to Project Linus. I am not sure how active I can be in the local chapter, but I think I am halfway through my second contribution.
I rocked this one, and will discuss it further in a separate post.
I was disappointed that I only made it to 50 Books read in 2010. However, it seems to be a reachable goal, so I'd better stick with it. I will commit to reading every book that my Book Club selects, even if I am not able to attend the meetings.
I hit 65 books, thanks to the audio section of the Library. However, I did skip one Book Club Book. The meeting was on the day of a Bears game and it would have been a re-read anyway.
I am not going to commit to visiting any place new in 2011. The winter vacation is a repeat, and unless I have a much better idea, I think I want to go back to New Orleans this year.
I did not visit any new cities in 2011. However, I have a vacation to Kauai planned for late winter (been to Hawaii, but not this particular island) and a conference scheduled for Wrightsville Beach, NC (been to the state, not this area). I do not have hard plans for the summer yet.
Additionally:
Several months of the year were defined by my mother's health crisis and the aftermath. For the most part, she is recovering nicely. There are some ugly straggling bills coming in, but it could all have been so much worse.
I did some pro bono work through the Taproot Foundation, finishing up my first project recently. It was mostly a positive experience, but it became very difficult to schedule with my other commitments. I should write up a complete post on that.
We lost two pets this year, Shadow the Dog and Spooky the Cat. We adopted Gibbs as a puppy this summer and made a serious goal of making sure he is well-trained and socialized. His training is going well. He does. not. like. strangers. Also, Sigmund the Foster Grey has decided that he is staying. I believe this is called a "failed foster" and his adoption is pending.
Finally, I have used the Internet to do a whole lot more networking and idea-sharing with other non-profits and volunteers. I have not contributed much to Glenview Patch lately, though.
So. I owe posts to my blog on Sigmund, Project Linus, Great Non Profits, and Taproot. I go back to work tomorrow for one day, then leave for Big Work Meeting. I think it is going to be a good year.
Several months of the year were defined by my mother's health crisis and the aftermath. For the most part, she is recovering nicely. There are some ugly straggling bills coming in, but it could all have been so much worse.
I did some pro bono work through the Taproot Foundation, finishing up my first project recently. It was mostly a positive experience, but it became very difficult to schedule with my other commitments. I should write up a complete post on that.
We lost two pets this year, Shadow the Dog and Spooky the Cat. We adopted Gibbs as a puppy this summer and made a serious goal of making sure he is well-trained and socialized. His training is going well. He does. not. like. strangers. Also, Sigmund the Foster Grey has decided that he is staying. I believe this is called a "failed foster" and his adoption is pending.
Finally, I have used the Internet to do a whole lot more networking and idea-sharing with other non-profits and volunteers. I have not contributed much to Glenview Patch lately, though.
So. I owe posts to my blog on Sigmund, Project Linus, Great Non Profits, and Taproot. I go back to work tomorrow for one day, then leave for Big Work Meeting. I think it is going to be a good year.
Bragging about my Dog Again
We gave this to Gibbs for Christmas:
I gave him a quick demo by putting a small treat into two compartments. One was open and he snatched it up. Then he watched me open the other so he could grab the second treat. Then I picked it all up and loaded it all up. Then I gave it to him and this is what happened (only the first minute is really worth watching):
That moment he was distracted was because Kiwi the Grey flew over our heads. He didn't get the last two, but came back to it later.
I love this dog.
I gave him a quick demo by putting a small treat into two compartments. One was open and he snatched it up. Then he watched me open the other so he could grab the second treat. Then I picked it all up and loaded it all up. Then I gave it to him and this is what happened (only the first minute is really worth watching):
That moment he was distracted was because Kiwi the Grey flew over our heads. He didn't get the last two, but came back to it later.
I love this dog.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
2011 Reading Recap
Not long ago, my friend, Nyla
asked what my non-fiction to fiction ratio was.
I really didn’t know, because I enjoy both, so she put me in the 50/50
category. Not this year:
24 non-fiction to 40 fiction
My favorite fiction reads were The Help and The Book Thief, followed by Hotel
on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet.
Favorite non-fiction was My Life
in France and Mornings on Horseback.
The most important thing I read
was Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide,
which introduced me to many non-profits doing great work across the globe
including Women for Women International.
I am now an active sponsor.
New for me this year was diving
into the audio books. I am going through
books much more quickly when I can sit and work on a Project Linus blanket at
the same time. I wonder if that isn’t
why I read fewer non-fiction – there are definitely fewer non-fiction books on
audio in the library.
I still buy books faster than I
read them. And I don’t do as much on the
Kindle as many people. Here was the
final tally (the links are to the appropriate page on Librarything. If you are interested in my "reviews" you might find the "50 Book Challenge 2011" tag down the right-hand side of the page and scroll through):
11 Days in December: Christmas at the
Bulge, 1944
Stanley Weintraub
Santa Clawed: A Novel (Mrs. Murphy
Mysteries)
Rita Mae Brown & Sneaky Pie Brown
Autobiography of Santa Claus, The
Jeff Guinn
In the Dark Streets Shineth: A 1941 Christmas Eve Story
David McCullough
A Week in December
Sebastian Faulks
Christmas Eve at Friday Harbor
Lisa Kleypas
The Christmas Train
David Baldacci
The Fat Man: A Tale of North Pole Noir
Ken Harmon
The Book Thief
Markus Zusak
Home for Christmas
Andrew M. Greeley
A Christmas Secret
Anne Perry
Everyman
Philip Roth
Dr. Zhivago
Boris Pasternak
Losing Mum and Pup: A Memoir
Christopher Buckley
The Lake of Dreams: A Novel
Kim Edwards
Travels with My Aunt (Penguin Classics
Deluxe Edition)
Graham Greene
Homer & Langley
E.L. Doctorow
The Tortilla Curtain: A Novel (Penguin
Ink)
T.C. Boyle
The Castle in the Forest: A Novel
Norman Mailer
Harp
John Gregory Dunne
The Last Dickens: A Novel
Matthew Pearl
What If?: Short Stories to Spark
Diversity Dialogue
Steve L. Robbins
Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet
Jamie Ford
True Compass: A Memoir
Edward M. Kennedy
Working for Peanuts: The Project Linus
Story
Karen Loucks Rinedollar
Changing the World on a Tuesday Night
Tammi DeVille
The Flanders Panel
Arturo Perez-Reverte
Between Two Worlds: Escape from Tyranny:
Growing Up in the Shadow of Saddam
Zainab Salbi
Presidential Courage: Brave Leaders and
How They Changed America 1789-1989
Michael Beschloss
The Red Leather Diary: Reclaiming a Life
Through the Pages of a Lost Journal (P.S.)
Lily Koppel
I Am Charlotte Simmons: A Novel
Tom Wolfe
The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie
Society
Mary Ann Shaffer
Thunderstruck
Erik Larson
Neverwhere: A Novel
Neil Gaiman
Einstein: His Life and Universe
Walter Isaacson
Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter
Seth Grahame-Smith
Exiles in the Garden
Ward Just
Run
Ann Patchett
A Spot of Bother (Vintage)
Mark Haddon
Son of a Witch: Volume Two in the Wicked
Years
Gregory Maguire
Mornings on Horseback: The Story of an
Extraordinary Family, a Vanished Way of Life and the Unique Child Who Became
Theodore Roosevelt
David McCullough
The Shack (Special Hardcover Edition)
William P. Young
American Creation: Triumphs and Tragedies
in the Founding of the Republic
Joseph J. Ellis
The Acts of King Arthur and His Noble
Knights: (Penguin Classics Deluxe Edition)
John Steinbeck
White Jazz: A Novel
James Ellroy
Under the Tuscan Sun: At Home in Italy
Frances Mayes
Zombie Spaceship Wasteland: A Book by
Patton Oswalt
Patton Oswalt
My Life in France
Julia Child
Unaccustomed Earth: Stories (Vintage
Contemporaries)
Jhumpa Lahiri
Things I Overheard While Talking to
Myself
Alan Alda
The Help
Kathryn Stockett
Boom!: Talking About the Sixties: What
Happened, How It Shaped Today, Lessons for Tomorrow
Tom Brokaw
Suite Francaise
Irene Nemirovsky
Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into
Opportunity for Women Worldwide (Vintage)
Nicholas Kristof
The Poe Shadow: A Novel
Matthew Pearl
THE SECRET ADVERSARY
Agatha Christie
A Separate Country
Robert Hicks
The Child in Time
Ian McEwan
1776
David McCullough
Bloody Crimes: The Chase for Jefferson
Davis and the Death Pageant for Lincoln's Corpse
James L. Swanson
The Zahir: A Novel of Obsession (P.S.)
Paul Coelho
THE EDIBLE WOMAN by Margaret Atwood
(Paperback - Jan 1969)
Margaret Atwood
Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and
Sex
Mary Roach
The Witches of Eastwick
John Updike
